Recently I read in the newspaper, it stated that in China, any guy who is 30 years old and has a vehicle, a roof, a job and a happy marriage are successful. While those who lack of any of the 4 mentioned are not successful.

But who on the earth to judge successful by whole anyway? I opened my dictionary and check the word “successful“.

Having succeeded or being marked by a favorable outcome

That’s the definition from the dictionary. So of all, successful means when you reach your goal, and your goal can be anything outside of those 3. Say, you want to bang 1000 women in your life, you did it, someone envy about it, it means you succeeded or are successful.

Somehow, those 4 has been and still are the main purpose of a man, or a son. Until this very day, people still envy of only those 4 items you see…