Just a head up so people don’t come and ask the same questions over and over again. I can’t believe people still asking such questions on my age (25)…

My girl friend is not pregnant

No. I am not going to be father so soon. As a matter of fact, I actually don’t want to be father. Raising a kid and keeping them is a long term commitment, I will never ready for that yet. She is fine at home working and live happily with her family. I understand that a month back we went to Perhentian Island for a short vacation, but no, accident did not happen. And no, no plan for children yet, just don’t ask. I am not ready to see mini-wongpk running around the house yet, disgusting!

Pressure from parent

No. I do understand, the average age for Sibuan to get marriage is about 21 to 25, but my mom did not force me yet. Because I already has a girl friend, so she is fine with my choice. My girl friend parent in fact, wanted to wait for another 2 years. But some circumstances came in, the last step to go for was to “buy” back home instead of “renting” every few months which is very expensive.

Very rich, only work for few months can get marry

Not exactly. In fact, it is all the saving I have on this marriage. Both of us has been working freelance online 2 years ago. So 2 years of freelance saving + few months of considerable high paying salary, I think it speak itself

There! I don’t know how many people assuming I am becoming a father soon. I’m not embarrassed by this even if this really happen. I mean, why is it the only reason to get marriage? Are people still has such a stereotype mindset? Marriage is where 2 persons come together into a lifestyle, live together. It is not because of unborn child so 2 persons has to be together to be a legit parent for the unborn child ok?

Done!

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